A little more than two months before my due date, panic set in. Though I had much experience as an aunt and babysitter, and in spite of my life-long fantasies of motherhood, the moment was quickly approaching where my life would change forever. Change, even joyous change, can be terrifying. In my case, a difficult twin pregnancy kept very dire possibilities hanging in the balance. My husband was eerily calm; if I didn't know better I would have thought he was medicated. I spoke to my sister-in-law, whose support was always there for me like a welcoming smile. "Were you scared that you wouldn't be able to do it?" I asked. "Childbirth?" she laughed. "No. I can't even think about that! What if I can't do this job?" I was near tears. Every twin book I read described delirium to the point of doubling up on feeding one baby, while accidentally starving the other. Was this really something I would do? She laughed and gave me the best advice I have ever received, Read on...
Why the “F” Word is so important for Women Investors
Ladies, it’s time to take charge of your money. You know you need to; you know you want to. So what’s holding you back? According to a 2015 Money Fit Women Study conducted by Fidelity Investments, 92% of women want to learn more about financial planning, and yet only 47% feel comfortable discussing money with a planner on their own. What is the cause for this insecurity? Trust. They don't trust their own knowledge and they are not sure what professional they can trust. Here’s the “F” word that can change all that: fiduciary. Here’s another “F” word – fee-only. Put them together and you have someone who is looking out for your best interests (fiduciary), who will only receive compensation from you, their client, and not from mutual fund companies, insurance companies, and other financial institutions for selling products. This keeps their advice conflict-free, since the only criteria for investment selection is what is in your best interest (as opposed to which investment Read on...